Yikes, have I really not posted anything since the 10th? Apparently, I haven’t. I guess the days just got away from me. I can’t even claim being busy as an excuse because I haven’t been particularly busy. I have, however, been lifting weights consistently! And working my abs consistently, too! Of course, as soon as a couple pieces of the puzzle fall into place, another piece seems to get pushed out. You’d think they would all fit together nicely, since that is what puzzles do. Apparently I have cut my pieces wrong, though, and I’m still working on filing them down to make it all work.
Basically, what I mean is that I ran a total of about ten miles last week, which is pretty pathetic. I also skipped another long run this past weekend. I am supposed to be training for this marathon right now, but I’m sort of not into it. I’m not really sure what to do either, because I have moments when I think, ‘Okay, not a big deal. I’ve run two marathons, there will be more marathons in the future, not running this one isn’t a big deal and it’s important that I don’t push myself to do it if I’m not into it’. And then I feel sort of good for a while, because I’ve made a decision. Then that wears off, and I start to regret the decision and reconsider. I’m signed up for this marathon, I had been looking forward to it for a long time, and maybe I just need to be a little more dedicated and get a routine going. Then all the pieces will fit, and things will be great. Right?
Blergh. I don’t know.
There is something really appealing right now about just running for the fun of it, and focusing more on shorter distances, and running a few half-marathons, and picking out a fun fall marathon, and having the freedom to skip a run or two, or do some yoga instead of running, and not feel guilty about it. But then it’s like…26.2 miles!
Every week I tell myself I will get back on track with training and things will work out, and maybe after getting through the full week, I can see how I feel about it. Maybe my hesitation about whether or not to run has something to do with feeling like I won’t be ready, and if I can get through a week of training I’ll realize that I don’t need to worry about that and feel better. So maybe that’s what I should do–just go through the week and not really worry too much about the marathon. Make it a goal to do the week of training, and see how I feel. I had an emotionally draining weekend so today will probably just be a rest day instead of the crosstraining day it should be, but that’s alright. Maybe this should just become an exercise in forgiving myself.
Has anyone else ever grappled with this sort of thing? I can’t put my finger on what the appeal of the marathon is, and I think that’s part of what makes this so difficult. What would you do in this situation?